Final Sunday, The New York Occasions printed one other article legitimizing transphobia. Titled “When College students Change Gender Id, and Mother and father Don’t Know,” the article—the most recent in a string of transphobic NYT articles—focuses on mother and father whose children are overtly trans in school, however not at dwelling. This piece may have been a very nice exploration of why children make the wrenching choice to not inform their mother and father they’re trans. As an alternative, it places transphobic mother and father on the middle, giving them a nationwide platform to wring their arms over different peoples’ lives and our bodies.
Listed below are a couple of chosen quotes from the article. Proper off the bat, it places the highlight on mother and father who consider they need to have the ability to management their youngsters.
“It felt like a parenting stab within the again from the college system,” [one parent] stated. “It ought to have been a choice we made as a household.”
No, it shouldn’t have! The one one that will get to decide about their gender is that individual! Not their mother and pa, not the remainder of their household. Nobody in your life will get to weigh in in your gender besides you.
The article does quote some trans folks, however it retains reverting to the mother and father’ factors of view as a substitute of centering trans folks themselves.
However dozens of oldsters whose youngsters have socially transitioned in school advised The Occasions they felt villainized by educators who appeared to suppose that they — not the mother and father — knew what was finest for his or her youngsters. They insisted that educators mustn’t intervene with out notifying mother and father except there may be proof of bodily abuse at dwelling.
An absence of “proof of bodily abuse” is such a bad-faith, disingenuous threshold for notifying doubtlessly transphobic mother and father about their youngsters’s genders. It implies that emotional abuse is inconsequential and even tolerable, for one factor—and it fails to acknowledge that not all bodily abuse leaves corresponding bodily proof.
The article contains interviews with members of a assist group for fogeys, lots of whom go to nice lengths to explain how liberal they’re—legitimizing the false concept that transphobia is a suitable worldview on the left. It additionally repeats debunked myths about transitioning being dangerous.
“It’s simply been such a tough factor to navigate, as a result of on the one hand, I’m coping with my very excessive liberal values of individuality, freedom, expression, sexuality, eager to assist all of these items,” stated a tearful mom. “On the identical time, I’m afraid of medicalization. I’m afraid of long run well being. I’m afraid of the truth that my baby would possibly change their thoughts.”
Once more, the article does quote trans folks and trans rights advocates. Nonetheless, the vast majority of the piece is dedicated to anti-trans rhetoric disguised as concern for fogeys’ peace of thoughts, and as trans rights lawyer Chase Strangio identified final November, there’s a direct line between anti-trans reporting and violence towards trans folks.
At a time when trans individuals are underneath assault from all sides, the very last thing we’d like is one more effort to shift management over trans folks’s our bodies to another person.
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