Have you ever ever questioned why {couples} drift away from one another regardless of spending a long time collectively? What results in rising incompatibility amongst romantic companions regardless of understanding and understanding one another for therefore lengthy? In different phrases, why is it that, at a later stage in life, some folks lose curiosity of their associate though that they had madly fallen in love with the identical individual at one level?
We’ve got seen lot of such incidences in public lifetime of late. Not too long ago, the well-known film star of south India, Dhanush introduced separation from his spouse, Aishwarya after 18 years of togetherness. Earlier than this, Bollywood’s common couple, Aamir Khan and Kiran Rao determined to half methods final 12 months after 16 years. We’ve got additionally heard of the fairy story love story of Hrithik Roshan and Sussanne Khan biting mud as they determined to look the opposite manner just a few years again after 14-long years.
Everybody talks of Venus because the planet of infatuation and wishes. It’s liable for making us fall in love. However then is it additionally liable for making us fall out of affection? Not likely. Venus is the planet which desires us to expertise the pleasures of life, love being one in every of them. The influences on Venus in your delivery chart will inform us your romantic quotient, what qualities you want in your associate and the sample of your love life. However, once we speak about dropping out of affection, the planets to be careful for are Rahu and Ketu.
Rahu’s power pushes us to want for expertise, whereas Ketu results in apathy to expertise. Rahu- Ketu are thus crucial planets and needs to be analysed fastidiously to get an perception into the deepest motivations of a person. They inform us the place the unconscious is directed, the movement of expertise. We are able to get a way of longevity of the karmic connection between two folks if their charts are appropriate of their Rahu and Ketu placement patterns.
Relationships outlined by Rahu are forward-looking and focussed on development potential. It supplies a possibility to develop and achieve some work collectively which maybe both of the 2 folks couldn’t full alone on this delivery. However, relationships outlined by Ketu look backwards. These symbolize the experiences we’ve already accomplished to our fill. These learnings and the knowledge from these experiences exists with us however we’re unaware and apathetic to them.
In a pair’s chart, when Rahu varieties a reference to Venus, both by the use of conjunction or placement in its signal, it makes one obsessive about issues relating to like and relationships. The individual is able to defy all knowledge to attain their heartfelt wishes. One is trapped in a world of phantasm and nothing issues however to attain love at any price. Rahu tends to create very robust however unconscious wishes, with out actually understanding their causes, which might result in compulsive behaviour, addictions, fantasies and unrealistic imaginations.
Not like Rahu, who is rarely glad with love and lust, affiliation of Ketu with Venus results in dissatisfaction in current relationship attributable to lack of feeling or want for companionship. Such folks are likely to pressure themselves into relationships, however ultimately come out strolling alone. The directionless Ketu takes Venus into many instructions in love and relationships earlier than Venus lastly realizes that there isn’t any easy option to attain one’s soul mate.
When such mixtures get energetic in a single’s horoscope by way of operation of Dasha, particularly of Rahu or Ketu, then we’re compelled to introspect and rethink our love objectives and goal behind relationships. It results in fading of relationships and a sudden lack of curiosity or disenchantment with the prevailing associate. The pure result’s to stroll out of the connection and restart your life journey looking for your ‘true soulmate’.
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Neeraj Dhankher
(Vedic Astrologer, Founder – Astro Zindagi)
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